The Check-My-Abs-Out Guy
This guy is actually one of my favorites of the people you meet online. I think this guy is my favorite because he just doesn’t see what he is doing as a problem. This is the guy whose profile you open and when you go to check out the pictures they are ALL incredibly up close and personal photographs of his abs. Now, don't get me wrong every one likes a good six pack ... but please also include your face.
Boys, I don’t know why you think this is an excellent idea but an alarming number of you do. Do you really think we are all that shallow? That we won’t even consider dating you if you don’t prove to us that you have a six pack? Forgetting the fact that this close up picture never shows a face so we don’t actually know that it belongs to you.
Most girls are more interested in what you have to say in the about me section than what your abs look like. Yes, we absolutely need to feel some level of attraction to you if we hope to have a future with you. I’m sorry, but you aren’t going to get down and dirty with someone you aren’t attracted to - that is a fact of life. If you don’t support that feeling … then be sure to search out Wants-Casual-Dating-Only guy.
My advice to abs guy? Also, please include a close up photo of your face. You could be an amazing catch that has the added bonus of great abs but we don’t know that because we have a hard time tearing our eyes away from that photo. (So we still may enjoy looking at it even if it doesn’t get you the date!)
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